Most women over the course of their sex lives will encounter a situation with a man who is completely comfortable with having sex unprotected out the gate. We all can admit that condoms aren't the most comfortable things in the world, but with the increasing cases of HIV and the discovery of new forms of STDs that currently have no cure, being protected when experiencing new partners (and even a familiar partner) is a MUST! In an ideal world, safe sex would rule as king, but unfortunately when hormones are high, juices are flowing and trust is instilled, the "glove" is left off.
I took some time to do a bit of research into why women are so willing to go raw when having sex a new partner for the first time, and the majority of the women surveyed stated they felt comfortable because their partner claimed to be exclusively "raw dogging" them and no one else. However, quite of the few women admitted that after doing their own research, they found out that wasn't the case.
Ladies, the truth is, if a man is willing to have sex unprotected with you without knowing your status, 9 times out of 10 he has sex unprotected on a regular basis. He may make you feel comfortable and may assure you he's clean, but there is no way of knowing his true status unless you know his history and you see some real proof. Most STDs have symptoms you can't see on the surface and some have none at all, so make sure you take the time to think straight through the head he's giving you to make sure he STRAPS UP when he is ready to enter you. Always carry your own condoms and if he refuses to put it on, then you may want to reconsider that ride.
And if YOU'RE the one initiating the raw dogging, think about the possibility of caring a "package" THAT KEEPS ON GIVING and protect yourself from that "uncomfortable feeling" and medical bills later.
Hey, none of us are perfect, I sure know I'm not. Just remember that his cute face and his words are NOT BOND...pussy makes some men do almost anything to get it..especially when it's wet and ready. Don't put your life in his hands...PROTECT YOURSELF!
5 Comments
AllDayDre5000
Great post on safe sex and doing your research before taking such a huge leap over the edge. I would have to add that if both women and men are thinking of having unprotected sex you should both get tested at the SAME TIME at the SAME PLACE. This way you know for sure his or her status and can make a final decision on not using a condom. We all have had that one moment when we just couldn’t help but to go raw because we wanted it so bad but please don’ make that a regular event. RAP IT UP!
Beats By Dre
I didnt quite get this when I very first read it. But when I went by way of it a second time, it all became clear. Thanks for the insight.
Sac Hermes
Nourishes for your site oftentimes doesn’t work.
rd
Hit it raw or not at all
glamerotica101
NOOOOOOOOOOOO