The subject of Female Ejaculation (better known as squirting outside of the medical world) has been one of major discussion and debate over decades. With so much talk about “wetting the bed” and “making your body leak” in current secular music, this topic is something that I had to touch on for you ladies. The origin, cause and complete makeup of Female ejaculation is still unclear to a number of medical professionals, but most have come to a neutral understanding about the act of squirting and it’s makeup in order to help women understand it.
The first thing to realize about female ejaculation is that it’s normal. Experiencing this for the first time may feel like you are urinating on yourself, but don’t worry, female ejaculation IS NOT URINE! Yes, this fluid does come from your urethra, but it is a fluid that is created in the SKENE’S GLAND that is located near the urethra and is said to be a part of the G-spot. The Skene’s glad is similar to the prostate gland in men, so when you are aroused during sex, the fluid builds up in the glad. The fluid is said to be made up of proteins and sugar just like male ejaculate. The only difference in our ejaculate is the absence of Sperm.
According to some medical professionals, the Skene’s Gland is not present in every woman which may explain why some women do not ejaculate. However, according to Dr Laura Berman, Every woman can learn to ejaculate. Women who don’t experience “squirting” go through what is called “retrograde ejaculation” where the fluid that has built up in the Skene’s Glad moves back into the bladder instead of coming out during the peak of an orgasm. During an orgasm, we tend to squeeze and clinch inward which causes that fluid to flow back into the bladder, but if you release and squeeze out like you are urinating during your peak, you will ejaculate and have a harder and much more heightened orgasm. Again, the fluid is coming from your urethra, but you ARE NOT URINATING. It is the same sensation as urinating, except the fluid, once again, is created in and coming from a separate gland than urine.
Men find it quite sexy for a woman to “squirt”. From my questionings of “WHY this is sexy”, the answer I’ve gotten is simply because it makes them feel like they’ve done their job in pleasing you and making you feel amazing during sex. So ladies, if you have never ejaculated during sex, just relax and release during your orgasm and enjoy! It’s the best feeling in the world…I know from personal experience!
You can watch the video of Dr. Laura Berman talking about female ejaculation here with Oprah! http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Dr-Laura-Berman-on-Female-Ejaculation-Video
**REMEMBER TO KNOW YOU AND YOUR PARTNER’S STATUS! GET TESTED AND ALWAYS WRAP IT UP!**