The Sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is one that has been in existence for centuries, yet the typical woman tries her hardest to stay clear of any union of the sort for fear of being labeled a "gold digger" or opportunist. It's no secret that the average woman would prefer a man with substantial wealth when it comes to dating or mating for life, and in the most recent decade there has been an influx of online dating sites specifically created with this desire in mind.
Now more than ever, women can safely and secretly conduct their searches for wealthy and affluent benefactors without shame thanks to the worldwide web, but joining these sites is only half the battle when it comes to winning a daddy's heart. That's where sugar baby coach, creator of TheSugarDaddyFormula.com and best selling author Taylor Jones comes in. As a woman that has helped to elevate herself by dating successful men, Taylor has dedicated the later half of her career towards coaching women who seeking beneficial relationships with successful men on how to seal the deal. I caught up with her in between her busy schedule pick her brain and get a better understanding of exactly what she does and why she has become so successful at it.
Background information about Taylor:
I am a sophisticated woman and business owner, a Serial Entrepreneur, Author, & Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies, Creator of the www.TheSugarDaddyFormula.com, and worked in the corporate finance industry. I spent my childhood overseas in Germany and grew up in Virginia and now reside in Atlanta, GA. I am a woman who has chosen to enhance my lifestyle by dating successful men. I empower women to take the reins and take charge of their life and make smart decisions that will lead them to their wildest dreams and fantasies. I deliver high-impact, motivational programs that answer the big question that everyone wants to know: How to influence men to get them to do what you want when you want? My Sugar Daddy Formula will change everything you know about what it means to be a Sugar Baby.
How long have you been a Lifestyle coach for sugar babies?
I have been a Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies for 5 years
What inspired you to become specialized in teaching women how to secure sugar daddy relationships?
Like a lot of women, I’ve always been attracted to worldly men, and I wanted to surround myself with them to get inside their heads and experience a different lifestyle than what I was accustomed to. Many of us keep our Sugar Daddy dating a secret and we never talk with anyone else about it. So we’re left to wonder if we’re the only one dealing with issues we’re going through. I realized that I had created a system that has worked for me and which I now share with Sugar Babies.
At what point did you see a need for this type of coaching and how did you get your start in this specialized field?
I set out to offer a place where Sugar Babies could connect and not judge each other, and where we could help each other with the personal issues that we encountered. I started doing things in my spare time to help the many women who reached out to me. A few turned into hundreds and then turned into thousands.
What types of feedback have you gotten from people when they find out you are a sugar baby coach?
I have received a lot of positive reception from women and including men. But don’t take my word for it. This is what they are saying:
“After reading several dozen of your advice pieces, I was inclined to write. Wow, you are spot on about men (SD) and their needs! You are giving the absolute perfect advice.” SD John
“Thank you so much for providing all of this, you are like a guardian angel of Sugar Babies.” Sofia
“I can't believe I found your site...it's exactly what I needed in my life right now.” Helen
“The information in your site is not exclusive to sugar babies. You cater to the brains of people who simply want more out of life and I would not be surprised if you branched outside of the Sugar Daddy arena because you are just that effective.” Maria
“The Sugar Daddy Formula has mainly been motivational and I look forward to learning more. I like your writing style and I respect that you're trying to help other Sugar Babies and to uplift the lifestyle for all of us... Thank you Charmaine
Why is this type of coaching important?
Coaching is nothing more than an extension of learning. As in any endeavor in life if one can minimize ones mistakes then success is normally achieved at a much more rapid pace. After all education is paramount in every aspect of life. And this principle holds true in this lifestyle as well.
What is your opinion about a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship versus the typical romantic relationship?
This type of relationship is nothing more than a variation of the typical romantic relationship. The only difference is the fact that both individuals involved subscribe to an affluent oriented lifestyle. It truly comes down to a perspective on life.
In a world where "gold diggers" are looked upon as unsavory and manipulative characters, how do you help to break down that negative stigma with your coaching?
I try to convey to my clients that the aspiration to attract affluent and successful people to your life is not a negative characteristic but instead one that should be admired and respected. The individuals who do not understand this burning desire to be successful will never understand this lifestyle and ones that my clients should not concern themselves with their opinions.
In your coaching, what types of skill do you teach sugar babies in order to become successful at securing beneficial relationships?
Being a successful Sugar Baby begins with your character and your ability to radiate some quality that attracts Sugar Daddies and stirs their emotions in a way they want to help you. Attracting a Sugar Daddy is a process. It’s an art that requires patience, focus, and strategic thinking.
Please explain the logic behind the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship? Why are these types of unions desired and sought after?
It is a very simplistic concept when broken down to its lowest common denominator. Both people desire to be in the company of others that enjoy attractive, gregarious and ambitious individuals that are not satisfied with the norm.
What is the most important piece of advice you can give to a woman looking for a sugar daddy?
Always LISTEN to what his life is all about. I cannot impress upon my clients how important this one factor is. Learn to LISTEN. This is one of the most critical paths to success that I know. To deviate from this principle is a sure path to failure.
How has sugar daddy/sugar baby dating changed with the introduction of the information age and social media?
Today it has become so much easier to meet people with similar interests and desires. The social media outlets has literally shrunk the World. Coupled with this factor the exchange of information, such as my coaching activities, has enabled individuals to focus on precisely those attributes and characteristics that appeal to them and learn how to achieve their goals and objectives in a much more timely fashion.
Some people view the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship as a cash-for-sex situation. Please shed some light on the dynamic of the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship.
This concept is one that is shared by those individuals who do not understand the concept of people striving to achieve the escape from mediocrity. Most individuals live their entire lives just trying to survive and get by in life. And there is nothing wrong with living such a lifestyle. Most people only understand this one concept of existence. But for those minority of individuals who strive for something else in life mediocrity will never satisfy them. Yes there are those of both sexes that exchange sex for money but this lifestyle has absolutely nothing to do with prostitution. This lifestyle is completely about people who are striving for EXCELLENCE and choose to settle for nothing else.
What is the most important thing a woman seeking a sugar daddy needs to be aware of in maintaining a successful relationship with her benefactor?
A Sugar Baby should at all times be searching for ways to provide emotional stability for her Sugar Daddy while at the same time trying to enrich her on station in life. Often times this can become a sensitive balancing act between her own needs and desires and those of her Sugar Daddy, but at all times the Sugar Baby needs to keep in mind that her chosen Sugar Daddy is the vehicle that will provide her with the goals and aspirations that she truly seeks in enriching her life.
What services do you offer as a coach?
I offer profile writing assistance (profile critiques and profile makeovers), the ONLY online Sugar Baby Course that provides you with a detailed guide to Sugar Daddy Dating, and I have a special area on the Sugar Daddy Formula where Sugar Babies can post questions and have me as their virtual Sugar Baby coach. I have a Sugar Baby Support Group where Sugar Babies can connect with each other. For Sugar Babies seeking to reach their goals faster and easily I am available for coaching calls for a Sugar baby strategizing session. I also work with a small number of clients 1-on-1 at all stages of development and Sugar Babies seeking to start their own business. In addition I conduct virtual Sugar Baby Workshops that covers different aspects of Sugar Daddy dating.
What type of personality fits well into the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship?
All women are Sugar Babies. ALL women should realize their value. What’s the point of being a woman if we don’t use it to our advantage? As women we all have the power to attract and the ability to draw Sugar Daddies in and hold them in our grasp. Far from all of us, though, are aware of our potential, and we imagine this lifestyle to be a mystery that a select few will ever experience.
I see you have written several books on the topic of sugar daddy dating. Please share a little about what each of your books offers and where interested viewers can purchase them.
I have written five Sugar Baby e-books, including:
The Right Ad for the Right Sugar Daddy: My Personal Ad for Attracting Six-Figure Sugar Daddies
The Blueprint for Sugar Daddy Dating: A Guide to Building Lasting Sugar Baby Success
How to Ask Your Sugar Daddy for What You Want ... And Get It!
How to Succeed at Sugar Daddy Dating
Sugar Baby Survival Kit: The Essential Tool for Crafting the Perfect Personal Ad
And I am also the creator of the worlds’ first and only online instructional course on How to Find Your Sugar Daddy.
The titles explains it all. In addition I will be releasing my six book title named "The Sugar Daddy Formula: A Sugar Baby’s Ultimate Guide to Finding a Wealthy Sugar Daddy" in 2014. This book will be a must-have guide that no Sugar Baby should go without. You can purchase them on Amazon as well as on www.TheSugarDaddyFormula.com. Make sure to sign up for the launch of my book to receive bonuses.
What is the Taylor Jones short list of DOs and DONTs for sugar daddy dating?
Don’t make your Sugar Daddy responsible for your happiness. Be realistic in your expectations. You have a tremendous influence on the quality and fate of your relationship. If you know the game, the rewards you will reap will be limitless.