Step Your Tongue Game Up

Every one is always wondering how to improve their oral sex skills.  Whether its men looking to improve cat licking or women wanting to learn how to rock the mic, becoming a master at oral presentation is a major area of interest.  There are dozens of women who teach fellatio tricks and books that give the secrets to cunnilingus success, but there is one skill of oral pleasuring that is often left in the wings awaiting its main stage debut: TONGUE TRICKS.  The tongue is the most underrated muscle in the body.  It has the ability to not only help us with articulating speech, but it also helps with the breakdown of food and the creation of saliva.  In providing oral pleasure, using the tongue separates the truly skilled from the mediocre, but many are unaware of just how out of shape their tongues are.  Yes, I said out of shape.  Just like any other muscle in the body, the tongue must be worked in order to keep it strong and in charge.  In hopes of helping the masses improve oral sex in and beyond the bedroom, here are a few exercises to strengthen your tongue followed by a few tricks for men and women to wow the pants off of your partner.


  • Tongue touch- open your mouth slightly and use the tip of your tongue to touch the corners of your mouth.  Begin by touching one side and then switching to the other.  Repeat this back and forth motion for a total of ten touches on each side and repeat this set three times a day.  It may not feel like your tongue is doing much, but it will improve its motion and ability to be direct.
  • Tongue flex- this exercise can prove to be difficult for many whose tongues are weak, but practice will create a stronger and more defined tongue.  Open your mouth and stick your tongue out as far as it can go without touching the sides of your lips or your bottom row of teeth.  Once your tongue is extended, flex it into a point as sharp as it can go and hold it for three seconds.  After the three seconds are up, make your tongue wide and flat again without touching the corners of your mouth. Hold your tongue in flat position for 3 seconds.  Point and flatten your tongue for a total of 5 times, and repeat this set at least three times a day.  You will feel the tension in your tongue, and it's okay.  That's the burn you're supposed to feel when your tongue is putting in work.
  • Nose to Chin-Can you touch your chin or your nose with your tongue?  Attempting to do is is a great workout for your tongue even if you don't make your mark.  Begin first by stretching your tongue down and trying to touch the tip of your chin.  Reach for your chin five times then switch to touching the tip of your nose.  The goal is to point your tongue and practice being direct with your tongue touches.  Practice this set three times a day.

Now that you have a few exercises that can help you build a stronger tongue, now it's time to learn some tongue tricks that can work for both men and women.

Tongue Tricks 

  • Tongue flicks-use the tip of your tongue in a point to lick in rapid strokes whether on a neck, nipple, clitoris or glans (head of penis). This is a simple trick that anyone can use to turn their partner on
  • Flat rub-this is a trick to use that engages the full surface of the tongue to stimulate whatever part of the body is its focus.  Flatten your tongue and rub it in slow strokes across the surface you want to stimulate.  Focusing this motion on erogenous zones (neck, nipples, inner thighs, sides of abdomen, lips, genitals) will jump start your partner's sexual arousal in a matter of seconds.
  • Tip Circles-Use the tip of your tongue to draw circles around whatever surface you're looking to stimulate.

There are dozens of other tongue tricks and exercises to make your tongue strong and impressive. My suggested reading is "Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind Blowing Oral Sex" by Marcy Michaels blow

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  • Morgan

    I am totally new on the scene and completely blown away!! I like

    September 14, 2015 Reply
  • James

    I used the tricks and exercises and the do work. She enjoyed herself. Lol

    November 16, 2015 Reply
  • Mara

    Hello Tyomi,
    First I want to say I so love your work. You gave this sexy BBW back her confidence! So here’s my problem I’ve been seeing this guy for a while and he’s amazing. But I feel like I’m lacking in the bedroom. Sex is amazing don’t get me wrong, but I feel like I’m not pleasing him. He’s thrown me hints that he feels like I’m holding back, and that he wants me to do better when it comes to his blowjobs. I think I do ok, and he’s the first guy that I’ve had complain. He told me that he wants me to suck on him until he twitches in my mouth. But I feel like that’s something I would do for my man not someone I’m sleeping with. I know he’s into me, but he told me in the beginning that he doesn’t want a relationship. But lately looking at his actions I think he feels different now. I wanna be the freak that I csn be for him but not if were not in a committed relationship. What sjould I do? P.S. I have a horrible gag reflex any pointers on making my head game better. I got the tongue tricks down but I don’t think its enough!

    September 20, 2016 Reply

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