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		<title>Couples: Rules For A Threeway</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2015 21:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tyomi Morgan]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships 101]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[couples]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So you&#8217;re a couple looking to spice things up, and the fantasy of having a threeway is on the menu.  Way to go! You&#8217;re stepping outside of your vanilla ways and into the spice of sex that can ultimately change the way you view your sex life forever. While having a threesome is a valid [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So you&#8217;re a couple looking to spice things up, and the fantasy of having a threeway is on the menu.  Way to go! You&#8217;re stepping outside of your vanilla ways and into the spice of sex that can ultimately change the way you view your sex life forever. While having a threesome is a valid and often common fantasy for couples to have (predominately men who want to have sex with other women at the consent of their partners) there are rules that need to be understood before bringing a third person into your sexual equation.  Before I lay out the foundation, let me lay out a few facts and necessities about threesomes that every couple should know:<span id="more-5749"></span></p>
<ol>
<li>It&#8217;s often easier for a woman that is bisexual or bicurious to agree to a threesome that involves two women and one guy.</li>
<li>There are five different types of threesomes including one active member, One inactive member, voyeur, two girls one guy, two guys one girl.</li>
<li>A threesome will NOT save your marriage</li>
<li>Condoms should be switched out before entering a new partner</li>
<li>STD statuses must be known (create a position of safety for all involved)</li>
<li>The desire shouldn&#8217;t be one sided.  Both persons within the relationship must be on board</li>
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<p>Now that I&#8217;ve laid down some basic facts and necessities for threesomes, here are a few questions that should be raised before going into setting rules and creating boundaries:</p>
<ol>
<li>Why am I interested in doing this?</li>
</ol>
<p>-If your reasoning behind going into a threesome is to save you marriage or to have sex with other people because your partner isn&#8217;t doing it for you the way you would like, you should first go into marriage counseling and sex coaching to remedy the issues within your relationship and sex life.  There is no type of positive remedy that will result from bringing a new energy into your bedroom. It will only cause more confusion</p>
<p>2. Is my partner on board?</p>
<p>-Sometimes we assume our partners have the same desires as us, but that is never a safe assumption to have. Communicate with your partner about your desires before going through steps to make the fantasy a reality.</p>
<p>3. Can I take seeing my partner involved with another person?</p>
<p>-Again, a threeway isn&#8217;t always the traditional two girls and one guy dynamic.  Sometimes it involves two men and one woman.  You must be completely comfortable with seeing your partner being pleasured by another and actually enjoying it.  Jealousy is a common emotion that can arise during a threeway, so combat that negative energy from coming into the equation by checking in with yourself and remembering that after the fun is over, you and your partner and back to your relationship with just the two of you.</p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve gotten these questions answered and out of the way, it&#8217;s time to implement the rules of your erotic rendezvous.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>It is wise to allow the female partner to choose the lady of choice in a GGB situation to avoid jealousy&#8217;s presence in the situation.</strong>  Allowing her to take control over the girl that is being brought into the bedroom gives her the power she needs to feel comfortable about sharing her mate with another.  Let her lead and do a role reversal as a way to draw another element into the experience.</li>
<li><strong>Establish where the activity will be taking place.</strong>  Some feel comfortable with allowing this form of play into their personal homes, while others are more comfortable with setting up an arranged place to get it on.  Figure out which is best and go forward.</li>
<li><strong>Determine which sexual activities will take place</strong>.  Is it okay for him to go down on her? Are you comfortable with the girls playing with each other? Is kissing in the mouth acceptable? Ask these types of questions and give your honest answers to determine how your sexual experience will unfold.</li>
<li><strong>Set levels of communication.</strong>  After the fun has come and gone, will you keep in contact with the fantasy woman of the night?  Set the boundaries for how communication will be after the sexual experience has occurred. Building relationships with the &#8220;playmate&#8221; may be an option, but for some a one-time encounter is referred (definitely a ONS story to tell).</li>
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<p>Once you have communicated about the rules and boundaries, you can begin to look for your perfect play mate.  That will be another lesson on a different day.</p>
<p>Enjoy</p>
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		<title>Role Playing Sex with Idris Elba</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tyomi Morgan]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Tips & Techniques]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[erotic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fantasy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[idris elba]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Soooo, yeah. I had an experience and it involved everyone&#8217;s fantasy man Idris Elba. It was nothing like what you would expect.  Here&#8217;s how it went down. True Story&#8230; &#8220;Take this off&#8230;I want to see your lovely breasts,&#8221; he said in that British accent that drives me wild. Stretched out across the bed with his [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soooo, yeah. I had an experience and it involved everyone&#8217;s fantasy man Idris Elba.</p>
<p>It was nothing like what you would expect.  Here&#8217;s how it went down.</p>
<p>True Story&#8230;<span id="more-5706"></span></p>
<p>&#8220;Take this off&#8230;I want to see your lovely breasts,&#8221; he said in that British accent that drives me wild. Stretched out across the bed with his shirt off, he pulled at my blouse as a way to jump start my exit out of my clothes, and I happily obliged. It had been awhile since I&#8217;ve seen this man, so the heat between us was intense.  I began to unfasten my buttons slowly as I sat on top of him, straddling him with my thick thighs and I felt the bulge between his legs rise in between mine.</p>
<p>I was ready.</p>
<p>Growing impatient with my teasing, he sat up and ripped the rest of my blouse&#8217;s buttons apart and buried his face in my cleavage.  The smell of his cologne was intoxicating.  I let out a slight moan of desire as I grabbed the back of his head while he unsnapped the hooks of my bra as his tongue fondled the crease between my G cup breasts.  I wrestled my arms out of the chiffon sleeves that held me captive and threw my shirt and bra to the floor.</p>
<p>He was rock hard at this point.</p>
<p>He grabbed both of my breasts, one in each of his massive hands and starred me in my eyes as we sat in lotus style taking in the sight of each other.  &#8220;It sure is good to see you T,&#8221; he said huskily as his breath increased.  He was ready to get down to what we came together to do.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s been a long time since we&#8217;ve gotten together,&#8221; I responded as I rolled back onto my elbows to loosen the grip my thighs had on this chocolate Adonis of a man.  His work brought him to the westcoast for the day, and I was his company for the night.  &#8220;Do you have condoms for me to wrap my cock,&#8221; he asked as his lips trailed the length of my neck.  The fact that he wanted to protect both of us was such a turn on.  &#8220;I always carry protection,&#8221; I said as he worked his way down towards my jeans.</p>
<p>He was going to make sure I got mine before he entered me.</p>
<p>&#8220;Take off these bloody pants&#8230;.we&#8217;re wasting time,&#8221; he said with passion as he undressed my lower half.  I stretched across the bed reaching for my purse that sat on the night stand. I wanted to make sure we had protection ready for when we got down to the main event.  I only had a moment to grab the condoms within my purse before he grabbed my hips to pull me closer.  He was ready to feast.</p>
<p>Before I knew it, his face was buried in my crotch with his tongue putting in work on my pulsating vulva.  I could feel my sexual energy rising with each flick of his tongue.  As he pushed my thighs towards my ears, I grabbed the back of his head to keep in in a place that was getting me to my climax. As he increased his speed, my mind began to race and my breath became shorter.  My eyes rolled into the back of my head as he spoke dirty, encouraging words to make me squirt the way he was used to.</p>
<p>It worked.</p>
<p>He used his hands to finish the job in bringing me to an orgasm while using the British accent that he knows drives me crazy.  After he saw my body shake and contract to the movements of his fingers, he grabbed the conveniently placed condoms, opened one with his teeth, placed the hat on the fullness of his 8 inches and entered me for the first time in months.</p>
<p>After several switches in sex positions from the edge of the bed to the ledge of the balcony attached to his room he finally reached his climax, his erection subsided and his body went limp atop of mine.  After several moments of silence, he spoke in a relaxed tone.  &#8220;How was it for you,&#8221; he asked me in a voice no longer seasoned by the British accent he knew  I loved.</p>
<p>I opened my eyes and was faced with my long distance lover Martin, who had come to San Diego on business for a day.  Every time we get together it&#8217;s a fun time because he plays with me and allows our erotic times together to be filled with communication, great laughs and amazing sex.  This encounter brought with it the role of Idris Elba in his best British accent.  This, ladies and gents is an example of role playing.</p>
<p class="custom-highlighter">See, role playing is often suggested as a healthy way for couples to spice up their sex lives, but the idea of bringing costumes and premeditated characters into the room may prove to be intimidating to some.  Martin and I are extremely silly around each other, so our humor and easiness also flows into sex.  Our version of role playing involves him using his British accent (he&#8217;s actually really good at it) while I use my imagination to transform him into Idris Elba. Role playing allows me to completely lose myself in the moment and truly be present during sex, and for many others using the imagination during erotic play can do the same. Role playing doesn&#8217;t have to be extremely involved. Just a simple switch in the mind is all it takes for a shy lover to become transform into a super freak.  Try using your imagination first before getting into cosplay and scripts and see if assuming a new character.</p>
<p>Alright, so I didn&#8217;t have sex with Idris Elba in reality, but just the thought of it was good enough for me&#8230;because realistically any sexual experience that allows me the freedom to live out my fantasies is one that I can&#8217;t help but enjoy.</p>
<p>To the great Idris Elba, thank you for the inspiration <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/2/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
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		<title>Tips on Keeping a Long Distance Relationship Spicy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2013 16:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tyomi Morgan]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships 101]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long distance relationships are at an all time high thanks to the popularity of social media and the ability to build relationships with a person on the other side of the earth with the click of a button. In a non conventional relationship such as this, it may be one hard to keep the relationship [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long distance relationships are at an all time high thanks to the popularity of social media and the ability to build relationships with a person on the other side of the earth with the click of a button. In a non conventional relationship such as this, it may be one hard to keep the relationship spicy especially on the sexual side. If you are in a long distance relationship and want to keep things interesting, here are some tips to keep the excitement alive!<span id="more-1911"></span></p>
<p><strong>Use Skype and FaceTime</strong></p>
<p>Skype is a great way to interact with your long distance lover as if he or she is right there in the room with you. You can have in depth conversations about how your days have been, your plans for the week or just shoot the breeze. To keep it spicy, use these Skype dates to flirt with each other by doing a sexy strip show or simultaneous masturbation. Have fun with it and explore the possibilities. If you have an iPhone, Mac or an iPad, FaceTime is a great alternative to Skype.</p>
<p><strong>Create fantasies in your mind to reference</strong></p>
<p>When your lover isn&#8217;t physically with you, it can be difficult to get into the mood, so creating fantasies is a great way to play out scenes and to use your imagination to picture the scene unfolding as if your lover is there acting out every command.</p>
<p><strong>Send sexy text messages</strong></p>
<p>There is nothing better than opening a text from your beloved and being surprised with a view of their sexy parts or a message detailing all of the seductive and kinky things they want to do to you. Make it a habit to send personal and fresh sexual content to your lover&#8217;s phone to get their imagination going and to keep the knowledge of your desire for them alive and strong.</p>
<p><strong>Plan to meet up in person every few months</strong><br />
Physical contact is necessary at some point in a long distance relationship. Plan for a time where both of you can meet up to embrace and to create intimacy and unity. You can plan to meet in which ever city either of you live in or plan to meet up in an exotic city and make an adventure out of it by playing the roles of two strangers who meet and hook up for a steamy and romantic rendezvous for the first time.</p>
<p>Whichever technique you use to keep your long distance relationship interesting, remember to have fun with it and explore the possibilities!</p>
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