It’s Not Your Penis Size That Lacks, It’s Your Confidence!

Alright, I get it. As a man, a portion of your ego is placed in your penis. A man's bravery is often equated to the size of his balls and his "macho" is equated to the size of his penis, but as of late, I've noticed a lot of men who's egos have been deflated because of the "size" issue.

Maybe some of you have secretly compared the size of your penises to the size of others while changing in a locker room or while side by side at urinals in the restroom and feel you come up short, but I'm here to shed some light on the whole "does size matter" issue.

I'm not going to profess that size doesn't matter because it is a major factor in a woman's satisfaction during sex depending on the size of her vagina, but what matters more than penile size is your confidence in using what you have and the connection you have with the woman you're aiming to please.  There are a great number of women that I have had the pleasure of talking to about this subject that admit that while a large penis is appealing in theory, the emotional connection with a man and having fun during sex are far more important.

The picture above charts the average penis sizes by country based on statistical gatherings from research. On average, the male penis is anywhere from 5.5inches to 6 inches when fully erect, so anything above the average is a blessing indeed. The average condom is made to fit up to 7-7.5 inches of fully erect penis (with an average girth), so this should go to show you that you're not alone if you don't have a penis the size of a baby's forearm.

Realistically, it is your lack of confidence in your penis size that is causing you to lack on the side of skill when it comes to putting it down in the bedroom.  If your mind isn't connected to your penis with confidence, then it will show up in your performance, causing a lack luster experience for both you and your partner.  There are more 6 inch and below penises in the world than the monster meats you see in pornos. Grow some confidence in what you have! The universe doesn't make any mistakes in its creations.

My suggestion to you is to get out of your ego about your penis, stop looking down with concern for why he isn't a size you think he's supposed to be and look up into the eyes of the beautiful woman that is lying on her back ready to receive what you have to give to her with ultimate confidence! If you got her as far as being naked and ready to go, then you've done something right in striking up her sexual desire for you. NEWSFLASH HOMIE...SHE IS READY TO GO AND DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HOW BIG YOUR PENIS IS BECAUSE SHE HAS ALREADY SEEN IT AND WANTS IT! If all systems are a go, then get yourself a boost of confidence and go in for the kill! After all, it's not about the equipment but how you work it! And if you don't know how to work it, Glamerotica101.com exists to help you build up your skill!

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    June 8, 2015 Reply
  • RJ

    While confidence is important, you can’t be confident knowing that approximately 90% of women will always want a penis that is at least 8.5″ long & 6″ in circumference. ALL women want to feel the intense “stretch” during and that something that men below 8.5″x6″ can’t do. Any woman who continues the sexual experience once she spots that the man possesses an “average penis” is basically catering to the man’s ego and is trying to spare his feelings. ALL WOMEN LOVE, NEED, WANT & DESIRE A VERY LARGE PENIS….PERIOD! The truth is, Average & slightly above average penises are womens’ worst nightmare. That’s why penises that are 8″ and over called “blessings from God” and the others are worthless.

    July 13, 2015 Reply
  • RJ

    Thanks Tyomi, for your prompt and respectful response to my email. I’m just going to have to agree to disagree with your theory that there’s a significantly large population of women that really prefer average to slightly above average penises in this country, maybe 10%-15% do. Other than that, I really do enjoy your website! There are a lot of interesting facts and tips for everyone. I really respect how you promote safe sex to your followers. Once again, thank you for your time and effort!


    July 16, 2015 Reply
  • Euphemia Griffin

    Hello can you help I have a new man in my life and I have not had sex in 4yr . I was to give him the best blow job ,and ride him good can you tell me what to do. Thank you

    August 31, 2015 Reply
  • Verrod Thompson

    Hello Sexpert Tyomi,I want to know what do you think about the Bathmate Hydromaxpump the Goliath version? They claim it supposed to force blood into the penis to cause growth.

    December 15, 2015 Reply
  • Demetrius

    Ms. Tyomi, I’m a 25 yr old male who is a virgin (unfortunately), but I’m interested in having sex. However, I’m not not so sure if I can please a woman according to my penis size. I’m 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.5 to 6 inches when erect. I don’t know If I can perform certain sex positions especially if my woman has a phat ass. How can you help me??

    February 25, 2016 Reply

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