<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" > <channel> <title>sexual comfort – Glamerotica101</title> <atom:link href="https://glamerotica101.com/tag/sexual-comfort/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /> <link>https://glamerotica101.com</link> <description>Sex and Relationship Advice From The Glam Goddess</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2020 06:21:45 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en-US</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=4.6.29</generator> <item> <title>Belly Rolls and Curved Peen: How Self Image Affects Sexual Performance</title> <link>https://glamerotica101.com/belly-rolls-and-curved-peen-how-sexual-self-image-effects-performance/</link> <comments>https://glamerotica101.com/belly-rolls-and-curved-peen-how-sexual-self-image-effects-performance/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 13:55:25 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tyomi Morgan]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Relationships 101]]></category> <category><![CDATA[comfortable in skin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[effects on self]]></category> <category><![CDATA[feeling sensual]]></category> <category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category> <category><![CDATA[self image]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sex positive]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sexual comfort]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sexual image']]></category> <category><![CDATA[sexy]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://glamerotica101.com/?p=5550</guid> <description><![CDATA[It’s commonly assumed that sexually active people are completely comfortable in their skin, but that’s far from the truth in reality. It’s rarely spoken about, but self image and how one views themselves sexually plays a big part in sexual performance. It may sound like an issue that only women deal with, but don’t get […]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s commonly assumed that sexually active people are completely comfortable in their skin, but that’s far from the truth in reality. It’s rarely spoken about, but self image and how one views themselves sexually plays a big part in sexual performance. It may sound like an issue that only women deal with, but don’t get it twisted! Men can be just as self conscious about their bodies as women are, and guess what? There is nothing wrong with that. Women tend to be more insecure about their body shapes, whereas men typically have hang up about their penis shapes and sizes I (can’t even begin to count how many emails and tweets I receive daily from men who literally want me to check their size and give them security that their size is adequate to satisfy any woman.)<span id="more-5550"></span></p> <p>Stretch marks, cellulite, curves that have more to love, breasts that have been beaten by gravity and even less than perfectly manicured toes are all common self image issues that plague women when they reach the threshold of the bedroom. In fear of being turned away at the sight of any of these supposed “imperfections” most women with these insecurities run and hide under covers before sex begins, or demand a pitch black room to avoid the wandering eyes of her partner while performing the hanky panky. And don’t you dare ask her to get on top, because she will shake in her boots at the mere thought of her partner having full sight of her body, let alone observing her insecurity with being in control during sex.</p> <p>Men who carry around a load of sexual insecurity will typically behave in the same manner or will try to hide their precious package from a woman until penetration ensues. Don’t ask to go down on him and don’t you dare try to touch his penis because his erection will go south of the border at the mere thought of a woman discovering what he believes to be a less than worthy magic stick.</p> <p>It’s common for anyone to have issues with sexual self image, and who could blame them when society as a whole isn’t as accepting of the various body types in existence. Every ad that sells sex sports an airbrushed version of a woman whose body seems to be heavenly made, and each pornographic flick viewed by the horny and erect features a man with a larger than average penis that puts any average man to shame. Sexual self esteem first begins with having a sex positive mind and having mental images of healthy body types. Entertainers and the beautiful people of Hollywood are placed on pedestals that make is easy for anyone to set their physical looks above and below as the standard of beauty, but this is an unhealthy practice.</p> <p>Once a man or a woman has it in his or her head that they do not physically meet standard to be desired sexually, the mind disconnects from the genitals and is no longer set to prepare the body for arousal. Funny thing is, most of these insecurities appear when a couple right at the brink of getting it on (if you’re already in the heat of the moment and your clothes are being removed, you are as good as F*cked, so why fight it?). Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, dry vagina and painful sex are just a few of the common issues with sex that can result from insecurities with sexual self image.</p> <p>So how does one get over these insecurities? Easy. By accepting themselves as they are and realizing that those perpetuated standards of beauty are based on a system that a group of people in a marketing room as deemed as socially acceptable. If anyone were to stop and truly take a look at the people who coexist with them daily, he or she would discover that the average person isn’t a supermodel, doesn’t have washboard abs and every single person has a different standard of beauty. it doesn’t matter if your body isn’t perfectly toned or if your genitals don’t look like the ones in the picture books. What matters most is that you accept yourself and are confident in your own skin, because confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear.</p> <p>Here are my personal tips for increasing self love and acceptance of one’s sexual self:</p> <ol> <li>Spend as much time naked as possible. Getting comfortable in your own skin is the best way to embrace your natural self. If possible, spend time with your partner naked in the daylight. The best time to do this would be first thing in the morning before getting ready. You will discover that there is nothing to fear but morning breath</li> <li>Look in the mirror while naked and take it all in. As you’re looking in the mirror say 5 positive things about your body. To become even more confident in your sexual self, have sex in front of a mirror and look at yourself while you’re in the moment. You may find a sexual beast looking back at you that will surprise you.</li> <li>Stop comparing yourself to other people. There is only one you, and if your partner thinks you are amazing as you are, then that’s all that matters.</li> </ol> <p>These are just a few tips on how to embrace self. Be confident, stop comparing yourself to others and be sexually free.</p> <button class="simplefavorite-button has-count" data-postid="5550" data-siteid="1" data-favoritecount="1"><i class="fa fa-heart-o"></i><span class="simplefavorite-button-count">1<span></button>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://glamerotica101.com/belly-rolls-and-curved-peen-how-sexual-self-image-effects-performance/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>2</slash:comments> </item> <item> <title>What A Good Girl Can Learn From A Hoe</title> <link>https://glamerotica101.com/what-a-good-girl-can-learn-from-a-hoe-2/</link> <comments>https://glamerotica101.com/what-a-good-girl-can-learn-from-a-hoe-2/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 23 Jun 2013 17:11:46 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tyomi Morgan]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Relationships 101]]></category> <category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Good girl syndrome]]></category> <category><![CDATA[hoes]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sexual comfort]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://glamerotica101.com/?p=4118</guid> <description><![CDATA[DISCLAIMER: This article is not directed towards the “good girls” who know how to secure and maintain successful relationships, but for the women within the “good girl category” who can’t seem to remain in a stable relationship. This one is for YOU! Over the past few weeks during my LURKING through social media sites, I’ve […]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DISCLAIMER: This article is not directed towards the “good girls” who know how to secure and maintain successful relationships, but for the women within the “good girl category” who can’t seem to remain in a stable relationship. This one is for YOU!</p> <p>Over the past few weeks during my LURKING through social media sites, I’ve noticed a lot of status updates, tweets and Instagram pictures stating, “These hoes are getting wifed up”, or<span id="more-3871"></span> “These hoes be winning”, and they are always dripping with an underlying disdain or bitterness from the people who post them (usually women with good morals and standards that can’t seem to keep the interest of a man). <span id="more-4118"></span>When I saw these statuses, I began to think about the number of women that I’ve known vicariously or personally while growing up that had reputations of being fast or being “hoes” that are now happily married with beautiful families, and it got me to thinking about how these women were able to achieve what so many women only dream of achieving (earning the wife title and affections of a man).</p> <p>First and foremost, lets be clear: a woman that is classified as a “hoe” is not a malicious or bad spirited person, but a woman seeking love and affection like the next. Her methods of finding love and affection are often looked down upon by society because of her sexual promiscuity and what many would consider to be a “lack of moral standards”, however, through her sexual exploration and experiences with the men she encounters, she learns a lot about herself, about men and about the basics of relationships. The “hoe” doesn’t view sex as something sacred, but as a way to express her emotions and as a way to release. So for her, sex often becomes a tool to achieve what she wants.</p> <p>So what can a good girl really learn from a hoe?</p> <p><strong>She can learn how to become comfortable with her sexually</strong></p> <p>Sex is a major part of intimate relationships, and one of the main reasons why men cheat in relationships is because of an incompatible sex partner. The “hoe” has taken time to learn her sexual triggers (what turns her on and off) and learn how to perform effectively to make sure every sexual experience is an amazing one. The good girl is known to have quite a few restrictions when it comes to sexual performance, but she should take notes from the “hoe” and learn how to become comfortable in sexual performance, learn how to be comfortable with being in a sexual state and viewing herself as a sexual being. Spending time in self pleasuring and using mirrors during sex is a great way to help build sexual confidence, and asking for critique is another way to improve skill. The good girl doesn’t need to practice on multiple men, just with the one she has chosen as her targeted match. When a man can see that a woman is comfortable in her sexuality and knows how to take control, it’s a turn on and it helps usher in intimacy and a bond through sexual energy.</p> <p><strong>She can learn how to get what she wants out of men<br /> </strong></p> <p>The “Hoe” knows exactly what she wants and when it comes to men, she has a clear understanding of what they want out of women and how to manipulate the situation to achieve her goals. What the “Hoe” understands in this situation is that sex is a natural human function that we all need to maintain a healthy lifestyle. The Hoe uses sex as a way to get what she wants but she makes it clear about her intentions before entering into a sexual encounter. Good girls have a tendency to keep their desires and their demands of what they want from a man hidden because they don’t want to appear too demanding or as a “gold digger”, however many good girls become doormats just going along with what a man desires instead of voicing her opinion about what she really wants. The good girl should take notes from the hoe and learn how to be direct about her intentions in a relationship and lay what she wants out on the table, but in a non aggressive way. Making sure a man understands what you expect out of him and having him understand what you want him to be to you is major. The good girl may go into a relationship thinking it’s a serious commitment, whereas the man may look at it as “Friends with benefits” or just someone to hook up with. Being confident in communicating shows a man that a woman isn’t a push over and presents a challenge in the chase that makes courting more enjoyable. After all, confidence is sexy!</p> <p><strong>She can learn how to be confident in approaching and pursuing men<br /> </strong></p> <p>When the “hoe” sees a man that she wants, she has no shame is approaching him and letting him know what’s up. The good girl is usually traditional about pursing men and waits for a man to approach her while playing hard to get to deepen the chase. While “hard to get” isn’t necessarily a bad tactic, the “hoe” understands that a man may not always have confidence to approach because there may not be signals present that show him that it is ok to make a move, or he may be intimidated. Because of this, the “hoe” will diminish the awkwardness and approach a man to ensure she has her target engaged and focused on her. The good girl will sit on the sidelines and wait because she believes women approaching men isn’t natural, but that’s an opportunity missed. The good girl needs to take a note from the “hoe” and become confident in her power and influence as a woman and go after what she wants! A man will appreciate the attention and effort especially when it comes off as sincere and non threatening.</p> <p>This article wasn’t written to suggest that “good girls” go out and sleep with the neighborhood, but to learn how to become confident about their sexual abilities and knowing how to use them within their respected relationships to get what they want and create a healthy balance of intimacy and communication. Take notes from the hoe and learn to be confident and proud to be a sensual being with power to influence men and bend them to your will; just don’t abuse the power and use it to manipulate.</p> <button class="simplefavorite-button has-count" data-postid="4118" data-siteid="1" data-favoritecount="3"><i class="fa fa-heart-o"></i><span class="simplefavorite-button-count">3<span></button>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://glamerotica101.com/what-a-good-girl-can-learn-from-a-hoe-2/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>2</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss> <!-- Performance optimized by W3 Total Cache. Learn more: https://www.w3-edge.com/products/ Object Caching 621/632 objects using disk Page Caching using disk: enhanced Content Delivery Network via N/A Served from: glamerotica101.com @ 2025-03-08 15:55:43 by W3 Total Cache -->