Taboo Wednesday: The Threesome

The Threesome is a sexual activity that has been around for centuries and is one fantasy that many men wish to achieve in their lifetimes.  It is a "sexual sport" that many label as taboo, but a great number of people have secret desires to indulge in the act simply to figure out if the hype surrounding the threesome is worth the work. In recent years, more women have become interested in taking on the challenge of the threesome in order to enhance their personal sex lives or to add a spark to their monogamous relationships. Knowing who is open to threesome activity is something that can only be revealed through conversation, and when the desire is revealed, it is an activity that has to be planned out carefully.

When searching for participants to engage in a threesome, each person must be aware of  each participant's STD status and of the type of threesome that will take place. Many believe that a threesome is simply a sexual experience between two women and one man where each person is engaged in a sexual activity with each participant involved, but that is only one type of threesome. There are 5 variations of the threesome included the one previous mentioned, and I am here to explain them all.

Voyeurism

Voyeurism is a form of the threesome where there is a spectator watching the other two participants engage in sexual action.  The viewer is usually there to help enhance the experience for active pair.  The typical situation with this type of threesome is a man watching two women have sex.

Double Team

Double Team (aka the gang bang) is a form of the threesome where two participants engage in sexual activity with another participant, but don't engage in sex with each other.  In this form, two of the participants are usually of the same sex and perform sexual acts on one submissive participant of the opposite sex.  Prime example is of two men that have sex with one women where one man is penetrating the woman while she gives the other man head.

Soft Swinging

Soft Swinging is the form of the threesome where a participant watches his or her partner engage in sex with someone else.  People who engage in this type of threesome usually get a rush from seeing their partner dominated by another person.

One Active Member

This type of threesome involved one participant performing sexual acts on two submissive or passive participants, and the two passive members have no interaction with each other. Basically put, it's one person serving two individuals either at the same time or consecutively. The difference between this form and the gang bang is that the two non involved members are being performed on by a dominate partner rather than performing sexual acts on one submissive participant.  An example of this is one man giving head two women at different times in the same session, or one woman performing oral sex on two men.

Full Threesome

The full threesome is the threesome everyone is familiar with. It is the type of threesome where every member of the group is engaged in sexual activity with another participant. For example, if the group consists of two women and one man, the man is penetrating one woman, while the woman being penetrated is being kissed by the other woman, and the woman doing the kissing is having her clitoris stimulated by the woman being penetrated. It is a type of physical love triangle where everyone involved is being stimulated. No one is left out.

The most important thing in the threesome act is to know the STD status of each person involved and to make sure to use new condoms every time a new person is being penetrated.  Taking these precautions will reduce the spread of disease.

If you are thinking about participating in a threesome, remember to pick your partners wisely and to choose individuals who will be open to the possibilities within the experience.   Happy Experimenting!