Position Of The Week: The Linguini

22 May

from cosmopolitan.com

This week’s position of the week is yet another variation of Doggie style that tangles the bodies of two lovers together, just like noodles. This week’s position is called “The Linguini” and it positions the receiving partner on somewhat of a side angle while the penetrating partner enters from behind. Now this one I have tried and I have to say it is AMAZING! It’s in my top 10 of favorite sex positions. With that said, let’s get into the facts.

Benefits of this position

  • Allows for Deep Penetration
  • Stimulates the G spot
  • Allows the receiving partner to be in a comfortable position
  • Causes the vaginal opening to narrow for a tighter fit
  • Allows the giver to have full view of the butt
  • The clitoris can be stimulated by the woman’s pelvis rubbing against her partner’s thigh

Want to know how to get into this position? Follow these simple steps! Don’t forget…GREAT SEX IS SAFE SEX so use protection and leave your worries at the door!

(for the male perspective)

(1)Have your partner lay down on her side with a pillow underneath her head for support.

(2)While sitting on your knees, move closer towards your partner lifting her outer leg and placing the leg under her between your legs so you can slide closer to her pelvis

(3) Once your pelvis is inline with hers, you should be ready to enter her. Make sure you use your free hands to hold her hips and guide her motion as you stroke. You can also use your hands to massage her breasts as you grind slowly.

Enjoy!

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Position Of The Week: Electric Slide

15 May

Doggie style is a widely popular position, and because there are so many variations of the position, I decided to dedicate a portion of this month them. This week’s position of the week is called the “Electric Slide” and it can double as a position for penetration both vaginally and anally.

Benefits of this position:

  • Great view of the butt
  • Puts the female receiver in a relaxing position
  • Allows the male giver to have support while thrusting
  • G spot stimulation
  • Deep penetration
  • The pillow placed under the hip of the receiver protects her back from the lower back arch and props the butt up to make entering easier
  • The butt provides cushion while thrusting and a tight fit for the male partner
  • Can deliver quick orgasms

This position isn’t one that can be easily transitioned into from the traditional doggie style position, so pulling out and re-entering is required. Want to know how to get into position? Follow the steps below and start howling moans of pleasure at the moon! OOOWWWWW!

(FOR THE MALE PERSPECTIVE)

(1) Have your partner lay down on her stomach with a pillow placed under her pelvis in order to prop her behind up and protect her back from arching inward

(2) Sit behind your partner facing her butt with your legs straddling each side of her legs.

(3) Move in closer towards her butt with your legs bent for comfort until your pelvis reaches her behind.

(4) At this point, you may have to lift her pelvis up in order to enter her and/or spread her butt cheeks while she is propped up in order to see and properly enter the vagina (or anus if there is where you’re going)

(5) Once you’ve entered her, use your hands behind yourself in order to keep yourself level and supported while thrusting.

At this point you should be well into the position. Just remember, if you are going to try both anal and vaginal penetration in this position, DO NOT go from the anus to the vagina. Doing so can cause infection.

Enjoy

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Exclusive Interview With Adult Film Star Sydnee Capri

11 May

Watch the interview below and hear Sydnee Capri go into depth about how she got started in the adult film industry, her turn on’s, Favorite sex position and her love life. Enjoy!

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Sex Position Of The Week: Reverse Cowgirl

7 May

From cosmopolitan.com

HEEEEEHAWWWW! RIDE HIM COW GIRL! This week’s position is for the men that love to be ridden and for the women that love to be in control.  The position is called “Reverse Cow Girl” and it is very familiar with those who are fans of the position and to those men who get an heightened sensation from his female partner being in control.

Benefits Of This Position:

  • The woman is in control of the depth of penetration
  • Perfect view of the booty for a man that love cheeks
  • The clitoris can be stimulated while grinding
  • The male partner can control the movement by holding on to his partner’s hips
  • Deep Penetration can be achieved

Want to know how to get into position and get your day started off right? Follow the steps below and begin your wild Rodeo! Heeehawww!

(For the female perspective)

(1)Have your partner lie on his back with his legs extended straight out.

(2) Straddle your partner on your knees with both of your thighs on each side of his body. Make sure you are facing his feet so that your bottom is pointing towards his face.

(3) Penetration in this position can be painful if you sit directly on top of the erect penis, so you must lean forward a bit in order to make entering you less painful.

(4) By this time you should be in full position and ready to play. If you can not get the motion of the stroke correctly, have your partner grab onto your hips to guide you in the movement.

Enjoy!

Remember to WRAP IT UP! Know your std status by finding a free clinic near you www.gytnow.org

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For Him: How To Deal With The Broken Woman

2 May

a woman's broken heart is a fragile thing

 

Getting your heart broken is almost inevitable when you put yourself out into the world to love and love fully, but men and women have different ways of dealing with the hurt, getting over the pain and moving on. When it comes to women, many become broken, sometimes beyond repair,  and begin to build up walls to protect themselves from being hurt again. Many have the walls up to mask the many issues they have developed from the heartache they have experienced, but most still have the desire to try again and to find someone they can truly connect with.  You all have connected with them, and a few of you may be embarking on entering into a relationship with a woman who is currently broken, but you must understand that there are rules to dealing with a woman in this category. You can not approach or treat her the same as a woman who has never experienced this type of pain. You must proceed with caution and keep in mind the following tips I will give you.

First, you must realize that she will have at least one of the several issues:

Abandonment issues

Trust issues

Self esteem issues

Low self love

Difficulty communicating

Insecurity

Guarded

With keeping these issues in mind, here are a few tips on how to proceed with a broken woman.

Remain consistent

A broken woman is used to a man switching up his stories and simply dealing with her whenever he feels the need that he has to.  Remain consistent with your stories, your feelings and with the way you treat her, because if you waver in any way, anxiety will begin to set in and she may begin to withdraw from the situation. Women who have abandonment issues look for signs of men who aren’t consistent as signs that he may leave without notice. Stick to a schedule, and if things change up, explain why. It may seem silly to you, but the insecurity that a broken woman harbors is real.

Go at her pace

Because of her past experiences, she will be a bit apprehensive about pursuing a relationship with you, so you must let her lead by going at the pace she wants to go. If you become too aggressive and try to make things progress faster than what she is comfortable with, you will turn her off and she will shut down. She may be as open to communicating her feelings to you, so you will have to be patient and let her open up at her own pace. Your patience will be recognized and appreciated.

Communicate

A lack of open and honest communication is often a huge problem that broken women have had to deal with in the past. Don’t be afraid to communicate to her how you really feel and what you want. She will notice your efforts to be open with her and it will give you cool points on the upside. Also, make sure you remain consistent with the communication, because if you go a few days without speaking to her, she will begin to feel as if you have abandoned her, and begin to retreat from the growing relationship.

Be open and honest

Do not bring any signs of secrecy or manipulation into the relationship. If she feel like you are deceiving her , she will shut down and shut you out. Be open and honest about how you feel and about what you want so that she will know how to move forward at her pace. Most women who have been broken are used to lies and fabricated stories, so it will be a breath of fresh air to finally have the truth be told.

 

If taking these steps seems a bit too much for you, then maybe dealing with a broken woman isn’t what is best for you. However, if you see something in this type of women that is worth pursuing, then remember that you will be acting as a healer to her broken heart.

 

 

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Signs Of A Jumpoff

1 May

Cassie's more of a side chick than a jumpoff but that's a different post

 

In the recent decade, one night stands and casual sexual relationships have become more and more popular, but there are many women who get the “jumpoff” status confused with an actual relationship. It’s time for you to wake up and stop playing yourself.  Friends with benefits is one thing, but a jumpoff is another. A jumpoff is simply a woman used for sex with no emotional attachment. Don’t know the signs of a jumpoff, but what to know if you fall into the category? Check out the signs below and determine if it’s time for you to let that relationship go.

  • The only times you get calls from him is when he wants to have sex
  • You’re never seen in public together
  • Most of the phone calls you receive from him are at night
  • You call him, but he never returns your call, he only texts you
  • Meetings are often in secret
  • He doesn’t offer to pay for food or gas, and when it is offered it’s no more than $10
  • He doesn’t share any personal information with you
  • You’re kicked out immediately after sex
  • He doesn’t know your name and only refers to you as boo, babe or ma
  • You’re not introduced to family or friends
  • You know about his main chick
  • All conversations are strictly about sex
  • When he throws events you’re not invited (birthday party, house warming, or any celebration)
  • You have multiple quickies in his car or your car during late nights
  • He’s never available to be with you during the day
  • There is no cuddling or intimate gestures involved during sex
  • He gets up with you AFTER he’s been with his main chick
  • He only hits you up when he’s in town
  • You only have the number to his Generic phone, not the one he uses on the regular
  • He has no problem with his friends smashing you too (ain’t no fun if the homies can’t hang)
  • You’re never invited to his personal home…activities only take place in hotels or friend’s houses

Most women feel they can handle these types of relationships, but let’s keep it real.  Emotions can sometimes get the best of you and you can begin to catch feelings for someone who has no interests in you other than to use you as a cum cloth.  If you have experienced 3 or more of these signs, it’s time for you to take the bit of pride you have left and move on to something with more substance…unless you’re content with being a jumpoff. If that’s the case, be prepared for heartache and pain that you will bring on yourself.

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Position Of The Week: Tight Squeeze

30 Apr

photo from cosmopolitan.com

This week’s position is a variation of doggie style that doesn’t require any flexibility or high amount of skill. As a matter of fact, this is the one position that many often resort to towards the end of sex when the energy has become low and an orgasm wants to be reached.  The position is called “Tight Squeeze” and is thus named so because of how closely the lips of the labia are together and how narrow the opening of the vagina becomes because of the legs of the woman receiver being placed closely together.

This position is great for women who may have walls that may have become a little more loose than the desired, however, it is a great position to try no matter how loose or tight the walls of the vagina may be.  Men will enjoy the gripping ability of the vagina in this position and the extra cushion provided by the booty, and women will enjoy feeling every inch of the penis as her partner strokes. If you haven’t tried any of the positions on my blog yet, this is one that you should definitely put into practice. Wanna know how to get into position? Read the instruction below and get it in!

**DON’T FORGET TO WRAP IT UP! SAFE SEX IS GREAT SEX**

***visit GYTNOW.ORG to find a free testing clinic near you to know your status..knowing is beautiful**

(instructions for the male perspective)

(1) Have your partner lay on her stomach with her hands stretched out in front of her bent at the elbows (or maybe gripping the edge of the bed), and her legs crossed at the ankles.

(2) climb on top of your partner distributing your weight evenly on her body so that you won’t crush her. Before entering her, make sure her legs are crossed at the ankles and the thighs are parted slightly to make entry easier.

After taking these two simple steps, you should be inside and ready for the long stroke. To get her involvement in this position, have her thrust her hips back into your pelvis while you stroke…it will intensify the sensation.

As always, ENJOY!

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..R&B Sensation Tank Talks about Love and His New Album

27 Apr

During his visit to Chicago, I had the pleasure of sitting down and speaking with the ultra Sexy crooner Tank about love and his new album, “This Is How I Feel”, that will be released May 8th.  His new music has the classic feel of R&B placed over current hip hop beats, grabbing the attention of not just his current fanbase, but also the new generation of music lovers.  His views on love and relationships are refreshing and insightful and will definitely touch the hearts of men and women alike in a positive way. Watch the video below of my interview with Tank, and don’t forget to buy his new album “This Is How I Feel” on May 8th. Log on to www.therealtank.com to sample music and preorder the album.

Follow @therealtank on twitter

and me @glamazontyomi

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Position Of The Week: Sneak-a-Peek

23 Apr

Legs over shoulders while reclined on top of furniture? How can you not think this position is appealing! This week’s position is called “Sneak-a-Peak” and it requires a sturdy table, flexible legs and a bit of upper body strength on the part of the female receiver. What are the benefits of this position?

  • The legs resting on the shoulders opens up the vagina for deeper penetration
  • The female receiver reclining on the table enables the male receiver to see all of her erogenous zones (breasts, clitoris, neck) and her facial expressions while he’s pleasing her
  • The clitoris is exposed and able to be stimulated during penetration
  • The height of the table puts the female receiver at a good height for the male giver to penetrate easily and reduce stress on his knees
  • Enables both partners to experience sex in a new place in the house

Want to know how to get into position? Follow these steps below and add to your sex life today!

*Remember that Safe sex is Great sex so Use protection!*

(positioning from the woman’s perspective)

(1)With your back facing the table, have your partner stand in front of you and lift you up to sit you on the table

(2) Recline back on the table using your forearms to support yourself, and lift your legs. Have your partner hold your calves to raise your legs up to rest them on his shoulders.

(3) Make sure you scoot your butt to the very edge of the table to make it easy for your partner to penetrate you

(4) After following the first 3 steps, you should be in full position for your partner to enter you and begin the might stroke

*Knowing is beautiful…know your status by getting tested! visit www.gytnow.org to find a free clinic in your area*

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For Him: Signs You’re NOT Hitting It Right

19 Apr

Alright, so you’re completely smashing this FINE ASS chick going hard Pound for Pound with sweat dripping off of your brow and you figure, “yea I’m beating this up right!” Sorry to say, but all of that gyration and sweating sometimes gets you nowhere when it comes to completely stimulating your partner. There are times when you may think you’re doing a good job, but in reality you are failing MISERABLY.  Just as there are signs that you’re laying the pipe right, there are signs that you hitting her walls all WRONG.  Below is a list of signs that, if you pay attention to them, will give you enough time to pull out and opt for another approach. Just make sure you recognize the signs before you hit that point of no return where she gives you an “F” on your Sex Score card.

DURING SEX

While you’re stroking, she jumps suddenly like she just shocked by a jolt of electricity

She says absolutely nothing

She just lies there with no movement or effort

When you’re hitting it from the back, her back arches up like a cat

she says OUCH

She has the WTF look on her face

She tells you to switch it up at least 4 times because the positions are “awkward”

She smacks her lips

she has a scowl on her face (or a frown)

She rolls her eyes

She texts, tweets or searches facebook in the middle of the session

She yawns

AFTER THE SEX IS OVER

She jumps up immediately to put on her clothes to leave

You hear a buzzing sound from the bathroom ( that’s a clue that she is using her vibrator)

Every time you hit her up to smash, she says she’s on her period

When you text her a few days later, all of her responses are short or abbreviated (ex you: Good Morning Beautiful Her:GM )

She has no amount of sweat on her body

She goes to the kitchen to make HERSELF something to eat

She rolls over and reads a book or starts surfing channels on the TV

She gets up to go and work out (obviously you didn’t work her out enough)

 

Some of you may be used to putting it on a woman right, but there are quite a few that need to admit to themselves that they need a bit of work. There is always room for improvement, so if you are unsure of your skills, just ask your partner her opinion. It’s better to know than to go around with a false sense of security.

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