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rabbit vibratorThere comes a time in every woman’s life where she makes the decision to enhance her sex life with a little vibe.  That’s right; I’m talking about purchasing a vibrator for those moments of self pleasure.  The adult novelty industry is a multi billion dollar industry comprised of thousands of companies that sell vibrators and dildos in all colors, shapes sizes and materials. But how does a woman choose the right vibrator for her when there are so many options to choose from?  If you are a novice at shopping for adult products there is no need to worry about making the wrong decision.  My friends over at Carvaka Sex Toys in the UK have made it easy for the everyday woman to know the difference between a beginner toy and one that is more advanced.  Take a look at the infographic below created for your convenience to get a crash course in how to choose the right vibe for you.  And check out this amazing reference guide for more education on vibrators and B.O.B.’s (battery operated boyfriends). How to Choose a Vibrator IG

thermometerI have to admit that this fourth assignment in my fetish training was one that I didn’t want to do, simply because it was a denial of something I love to do. Jasmine and King of Jetsettingjasmine.com notified me two weeks ago that I would be participating in Edging, a technique where the participant arouses him/herself up until the point right before orgasm and then ends all stimulation before the orgasm takes place. Edging, to many, sounds like sheer torture, but I already knew not only how to edge but the benefits of edging. It isn’t something that I practice often, so for Jasmine and King basically control my orgasm from afar was a new experience for me. The benefits of edging bring with them awareness of “point of no return” (the moment that you can’t stop an orgasm), how to be multi-orgasmic, how to control and be present in arousal and an increase in sexual energy. Want to read more about my experience? Then continue on below! Read More


If you’ve been following my journey through Fetish training this year, you know that this is my third assignment given to me by my fetish coaches Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire.  The assignment was given to me about 3 weeks ago and amidst handling every day life and a crazy work schedule, I ‘ve taken time out of each day to dedicate some thought to it.  One of the fetishes I marked off on my survey was being a dom and having a sub, so this third assignment involves me writing a wanted ad looking for not only a sub but also a dom for myself.  Now I will go on record to say this: I am not the type to be dominated.  I know my personality and within fetish play I wouldn’t enjoy being in a submissive role, but for the sake of the assignment and balance I have to to think of both sides. Read More

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Yes, this is a photo of me wearing a collar.  A dog collar in fact.  This was my second fetish assignment given to me by my kink coaches Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noir.  The assignment was to wear the collar for 5 days, 24 hours a day and to go about my everyday duties while wearing the collar, including going outside.  Unlike the picture, however, I wasn’t allowed to show cleavage in public.  This was their form of collaring me from a distance and owning me.  The second half of my assignment was to document how I felt while wearing the collar, think about why I am wearing it and reveal how I felt while wearing it.  So here it goes. Read More


One major complaint I hear from men is about the lack of information available for men to improve their sexual skills, especially in the area of oral sex.  So many women complain about the lack of tenacity and execution men apply when “going down south”, yet the information on the market for how to eat the kitty correctly is minimal.  After having a conversation with a friend of mine about sex, he put me on to a post that has been circulating for three years on Tumblr where he gives men the GAME on how to eat the box correctly.  After reading the post, I agree that I couldn’t have put it into words better myself.  So if you are a man that is interested in pleasing his partner orally, take a few tips from this weeks’s guest blogger Artist/illustrator and sex enthusiast Markus Prime. Follow him on IG @MARKUSPRIME Read More

cream-thumbSo you’re having sex and everything is going well, but when the penis is removed from the vagina it’s covered in a white, creamy discharge that both excites and concerns you.  It has no smell, it doesn’t stain and it seems to appear whenever she’s really enjoying the experience.  What is this white, creamy fluid-like substance that’s coming from the vagina when she’s excited and why does it happen?  Read More

phone sexPhone sex is a great way to spice up your relationship especially when maintaining a long distance relationship, or a union that requires one partner (or both) to be apart from each other consistently. Even if you and your partner live together and aren’t at a great distance from each other, phone sex serves as a way to spice up your relationship and add to your sexual expression.  In order to give many of you what you’ve been asking for in terms of how to spice things up, I decided to take things to radio! Read More

IMG_3867Welcome to another week in sex positioning brought to you by The Glam Goddess! This week is dedicated to the men who love seeing a woman be in control and for the woman who isn’t afraid to back that ass up! This week’s sex position is “Reverse Cowgirl” and it’s simple to perform once you have the right set of skills to ride on top.  Read More

sensual massageTouch will always be my favorite form of foreplay, and to round out the lesson in sensual massage, my good friend Lisa Marie from www.Lovingsex.com has provided a part two to her first lesson in sensual massage.  Continue reading and Enjoy the benefits of sensual massage :-)  Read More