May is National Masturbation Month (yes, this is truly a thing) and in the spirit of celebrating one of my favorite sexual holidays I've decided to give you a few tips on how you can spice of your masturbation. These tips are unisex, so both men and women can apply the tips suggested here. RELAX! Masturbation is healthy and has many benefits besides a release of sexual energy. Orgasms can reduce stress, cure headaches, reduce body aches and pains, lift your mood and balance out the body's systems. Not to mention it feels so damn good!! It's the safest sex there is and it harms no one to do it. All it requires is a few minutes out of your day and you're good to go! Masturbation can help lovers learn how to make the sexual experience last longer when having sex together and the performer can learn more about his or her body through the act. If you're looking for new ways to make masturbation exciting, take a look at just a few of my suggestions below.
1. Try Masturbating in a new place
Sometimes a change of scenery is all you need to make your masturbation experience better than the average. If you're used to masturbating in the bathroom or in the privacy of your bedroom, choose a place that you feel is safe to "rub one out" in. Try doing it in the kitchen, in the living room while watching your favorite tv show or take the experience outside of the house entirely. Masturbate in your car while parked in a secluded area or in the back row of an empty movie theather. Just remember not to get caught when performing in a public place (it's against the law but the thrill of doing something taboo in public can heighten the experience). Use your imagination when thinking of places to do your business. Changing the ambiance of your favorite place to masturbate can do the trick as well. Dim the lights or light a few candles if you're petting yourself at night, light some incense, place on some music and create a romantic atmosphere to accompany your self pleasure (I know women will gravitate towards this more than men, but give it a try).
2. Use a new type of "inspiration" to accompany your petting
We all have those images, experiences or videos that help us get to that point of orgasmic ecstasy. To spice things up, find a new source of inspiration that can turn you on and accompany your masturbation. Look online for new photos that can cause your blood to stir. Thumb through pornographic sites to find new categories to awaken your senses. Listen to a different genere of music that makes you feel sexy. There are a variety of ways you can find masturbation inspiration, but it requires time for you to do so. Just make sure you do your searching before it's time to make love to yourself. You can also play with sensory deprivation during masturbation and use a blindfold to restict your eyesight while masturbating. With your vision being resticted your other senses are heightened.
3. Use an unique object to rub it out
Sex toys and fingers/hands are the usual objects many use to provide themselves with sexual pleasure, but there are less obvious objects that can be used to masturbate. For the adventurous woman, she can use vegetables or fruits shaped like the phallus to masturbate internally (with condoms covering them of course). Cucumbers, bananas, carrots, eggplants and zucchinis can be used as "natural dildos" but remember to play safely, clean the objects before using and be gentle. For clitoral stimulation, woman can use feathers, teddy bears or other stuffed objects, pillows or water jets to arouse themselves to the point of orgasm. Men can use fruits and vegetables as sleeves around their penises when masturbating as well. We have Auntie Angel to thank for these techniques. If you're feeling adventurous, buy a grapefruit and slice off the ends. Then create a hole in the middle of the fruit by removing it's core. Make sure the hole is large enough to fit your penis through, and now you have a home made masturbation sleeve. The same can be done with the skin of a cucumber. The goal is to slice a cucumber vertically down the side just enough to have an indentation. Cut off the ends of the vegetable and cut the insides out to create a slippery sleeve to place your penis in for stoking. It seems like a lot of work, but if you want to spice it up using food, it's necessary work. Men can also masturbate using socks, massage gloves or gloves used for exfoliation, or anything textured that will feel pleasurable on the penis.
4. Ask someone to join in the fun by watching you
Masturbation can be made even more exciting by having someone join in on the fun as a voyeur. Ask a willing participant to watch and direct your masturbation experience whether that person is in the same room as you or interacting via video chat. This is a great idea for lovers whether living together or interacting at long distance. Masturbating in front of your partner and eventually with your partner can help deepen intimacy when eye contact is maintained throughout the experience.
5. Try using various lubricants while stroking
"The Wetter the Better" is a motto used by many, although there are a number of men who prefer to masturbate dry. Experimenting with lubricants that warm up or have a cooling effect, or natural lubricants like coconut oil or grapeseed oil can enhance your experience. Women can experiment with these lubricants as well. Just make sure if you're using sex toys not to use oil based lubricants with them (coconut oil or any oil) because they will break down the composition of the materials used to curate your toys. (NOTE: OIL BASED LUBRICANTS CAN BE USED WITH METAL, GLASS OR WOODEN TOYS).
These are just a few of my suggestions on how masturbation can be enhanced in a few simple ways. Feel free to comment with your ideas on how to spice up the masturbation experience.
Happy Fapping :-)