There is an art to performing oral sex, and just as there are varied mediums in art used to create a masterpiece, there are a plethora of techniques that a woman can use to take her oral sex skills from lack luster to porn star quality!
Most of the posts on my blog are written from the perspective of a performer on how to execute a successful blowjob, but in this post, I bring to you a fresh prospective from the receiving end. I have a submission coming from Lagos, Nigeria from a Biology Major with a knack for writing. His name is @iamseye, and he wants to let all of you ladies reading out there how to get your oral presentation down to a science! So without further delay, Here are Alabi's "11 Ways To Spice Up A BJ".
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"Here is the Truth: Men are very delighted when we get a blowjob (this should help you get over your insecurities right?)
Be adventurous and try out the tips below to help you get the best out of your sex life!
1. Women are actually so focused on sucking only the penis that they forget to get other erogenous zones of the male body involved like the hip.
2. Use your hands to stroke his shaft well.
3. Women generally ignore the balls which actually turns us on when you grab hold of them.
4. Women, please don't solely focus on the head of the penis when there is so much more to offer.
5. We like surprises, and a BJ doesn't need to be reserved strictly for foreplay. Welcome us with a blowjob when we return home from work, or while watching TV/reading in our library.
6. We love women that are very adventurous. So try this out give us a BJ in front of the mirror. It makes us feel so good when we are able to see you naked and unhindered in the mirror.
7. The meatus. Lick it !! The meatus is the hole at the tip of the penis.
8. Suck lightly on the raphe between the scrotum (the line that separates the balls).
9. Ladies, give the guy something to do. Playing with your nipples is a good idea.
10. The place where the tip meets the shaft is the Corona. Grab the corona of the penis with your lips tightly, apply a bit of pressure and repeat the process.
11. Most guys complain of dryness during BJs, so my advice to you is to use as much saliva as possible to increase lubrication and comfort."
So there you have it ladies! Take as much if the information as you want and use it! The key is to have fun, be safe and experiment!