You’ve asked me to teach you how to perfect being on top, and these are my basic pieces of advice. Riding your man is all about isolation of your hips and being confident enough to try anything. Lower body strength and correct angling is key to a successful riding experience. Look out for part two of this video with my partner and email me if you have any questions asktyomi@gmail.com.
Don’t forget to check out part two!
So you’re a couple looking to spice things up, and the fantasy of having a threeway is on the menu. Way to go! You’re stepping outside of your vanilla ways and into the spice of sex that can ultimately change the way you view your sex life forever. While having a threesome is a valid and often common fantasy for couples to have (predominately men who want to have sex with other women at the consent of their partners) there are rules that need to be understood before bringing a third person into your sexual equation. Before I lay out the foundation, let me lay out a few facts and necessities about threesomes that every couple should know: Continue reading “Couples: Rules For A Threeway”
Sensual massage is one of my favorite techniques to recommend to couples as a way to initiate foreplay and the arousal process, and my good friend Lisa Marie from Lovingsex.com has a few tips that she wants to share about how to make sensual massage work for you. Keep reading for all of the juicy details. Continue reading “Sensual Massage (Part 1)”
Orgasm. It is the most pleasurable sensation one could ever feel. For a moment in time, our minds draw a blank and we are blissfully paired with the energy of another. The moment lasts all of 7 seconds for men and extends to 20 seconds for women, but those few seconds of contractions and chemical rush seem like eternity as we die to ourselves. Although reaching an orgasm is the goal of sex for many, it is the lead up to the climax that matters most. One element of the arousal period that is necessary but often overlooked is clear communication to encourage proper technique. Moaning isn’t just for show, it is a form of communication to let your partner know their actions are felt and accepted. It occurs naturally when one is being pleasured sexually, and it signifies the desire for more. In the area of giving permission, the sound of a moan is a positive passive indicator. Continue reading “For him: How to put the “Oh” in Her Orgasm”
“Cumming” and “squirting” are words often used to describe female ejaculation during orgasm, but did you know that both of these acts are two completely different things? That’s right. If you’ve been wondering what’s the difference between cumming and squirting, I am here to lay down the truth. Continue reading “The Difference Between Cumming and Squirting”
Welcome back to another week in sex positioning brought to you by your favorite sexpert! Since we are on the brink of National Masturbation month in May, I decided to dedicate this week’s sex position to female sexual satisfaction. This week’s sex position is a familiar one for many and a favorite for others. Ladies, get ready to take your position as a rider and try on “Asian Cowgirl” for size. It’s easier to ride in this position, but provides much more depth than traditional cowgirl. This is truly one of my favorite woman on top positions. Keep reading to discover the benefits of this position, where to perform it and how to get into this pairing that places a woman’s pleasure as priority. Continue reading “Sex Position of the week: Asian Cowgirl”
Soooo, yeah. I had an experience and it involved everyone’s fantasy man Idris Elba.
It was nothing like what you would expect. Here’s how it went down.
True Story… Continue reading “Role Playing Sex with Idris Elba”
Welcome back to another week in sex positioning! I’m glad you are making a commitment to enhance your sex life by seeking out education. Featured as this weeks sex position is one that I consider to be in my TOP 5 favorites, and it is a position that requires overall bodily strength on behalf of the female partner. This isn’t a position for the faint at heart. Thanks to Cinemax, the Wheelbarrow has become one of my go-to sex positions when I want to turn sex into an event, and hopefully it becomes an option for your as well. The level of difficulty for this position is moderate and stretching is required before getting into this position. Physical strength and faith are tested in this position. Continue reading “Sex Position of the week: Wheelbarrow”
It’s been awhile, but I am back to give you the real deal about sex. If you haven’t noticed in the picture of this week’s sex position, I have a new look and a new partner for my sex position of the week series, but nevertheless the information provided is still just as spicy and easy to apply as my previous posts. Bare with me, because my blogsite will be going through a series of changes as the months go on. So without further delay, lets talk about this week’s sex position. Continue reading “Sex Position of the Week: Laying Cowgirl”
While on twitter today I came across a hashtag #cranberrybox, and like any curious person I dedcided to fall into the rabbit hole of hashtag chatter to see what exactly are people talking about when it comes to cranberry juice. Oh and behold, I come across conversation about how drinking cranberry juice can make the vagina sweet. YUM YUM. Continue reading “#Cranberrybox: Ways To Sweeten Genitals”