Over the course of my sexually active life, I have heard countless numbers of men brag on their penises, praise themselves about how well they perform, and gloat about their confidence in a woman's loyalty to them simply based on how well they "lay the pipe down". The more and more I heard these inflated stories about their sexual performance, the more I began to examine their relationships to see just how much loyalty these women were actually giving these egotistical "dick focused" beings.
When I began to do my research, I discovered that the loyalty wasn't necessarily given because love for the man was at the center, but because she was in love with the sex. I figured it was time for me to write an article for the men that may be using their sexual skills to secure love. Pay attention!
Believe it or not, but there are a group of women who have sex drives and mind sets just like men where sex is nothing more than a way to release and a way to satisfy their sexual desires. They look at men as sexual objects, use them for their needs then send them packing.
If you want a relationship that has the potential of reciprocated love, intimacy and longevity, you must look for a woman that is interested in more than what you hold in your pants. Having a woman "dick-matized" will not secure her loyalty to you, but to the sex that she will crave multiple times in a week depending on her sex drive. Her motivations to care about you and do for you will only be based in lust and eventually, she will begin to see that the true intimacy she craves is waiting somewhere else with someone else. If you are a man seeking to find loyalty and love by slanging D around town, chances are you will not find real love and you will create a cult following of psycho stalker chicks who would love nothing more than to devour you sexually and then leave you high and dry. Sure, it may be an ego boost to know that your penis is a coveted item, but eventually every person wants to be sincerely cared about and desired beyond sexual attraction.
So the next time you decide to lead with your penis and not your personality, think twice about what you really want out of a relationship and keep sex for when the time is right to connect with the woman you are pursuing.